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PARADOX OF A PLAIDED SWEATER: Students dealing with bipolar disorder deserve respect

Published: Monday, March 22, 2010

Updated: Tuesday, March 23, 2010 03:03

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Meira Bienstock is a senior magazine journalism major and writes 'Paradox of a Plaided Sweater' for the Daily News. Her views do not necessarily agree with those of the newspaper.

There is a common misconception that mental illnesses don't really need medication — people just need to talk themselves through it.

This concept stings me and leaves me completely baffled at some people's ignorance. Would the same sort of statement be made to a person with diabetes and heart diseases? Probably not.

Bipolar disorder is a real mental illness that cannot be cured with will power. It is a disorder that needs medication.

Perhaps it is a lack of understanding that makes people believe mental illnesses can be treated with therapy only. Many people will only experience situational depression, so it makes sense in those situations that medication is not completely necessary; there is a beginning and ending point.

However, this is not the case with bipolar disorder. There is no explanation for why people who live with this disorder are depressed or experience suicidal thoughts. It is a neverending process.

The effects include constantly racing thoughts, intense paranoia, impulsive behavior (such as having sex with up to five men in one week or blowing thousands of dollars in a day), an incredible amount of energy, suicidal thoughts, drastic mood swings, poor concentration and insomnia or an excessive amount of sleep. It is an exhausting, draining series that occurs at every minute of the day, for the patient's entire life.

There is a 15 percent rate of suicide among the patients who live with this illness, which is about 30 times higher than the general population, according to bipolar-lives.com.

With the patients' mind racing throughout the entire day, it's not surprising that so many people with bipolar disorder commit suicide. The lows are so extreme that self-destructive options seem to be the only answer.

When in a manic state, however, the patient feels happy, energetic and ready to conquer the world. Anything and everything seems plausible in a manic state.

The medication used to treat bipolar disorder falls into five different categories: mood stabilizers, anti-depressants, antipsychotics, anti-anxiety drugs and sedatives. It is important to note the medication relieves symptoms but does not provide a cure.

Anticonvulsants are also commonly used, such as Lamictal and Depakote. These aid in stabilizing the mood by tranquilizing hyperactivity in the brain.

There is debate among those with the disorder who don't want to be on too much medication for fear of losing their manic side, which is connected to their personality. While a psychiatrist seeks to relieve all mood swings and impulsive behaviors, the medication would then damper the extreme highs, which can be incredibly rewarding for patients.

However, some argue that patients with the disorder can accomplish a great amount of things while in mania and become very successful, but their lows will bring them so far down that they will destroy everything they have created.

It would be much easier if professors and students would understand this disorder and could aid in helping those with the disorder instead of turning a cold ear and telling them to lessen their medication and talk to a therapist.

I don't think isolating those with the disorder has any benefits, and I don't think people should dismiss the importance of medication. Why not try to put themselves in the position of someone dealing with the disorder? Most likely, they'd be thankful they don't have to deal with the nonstop intense emotions that leave the patients feeling so burnt out.

Maybe instead of ignoring, we could learn to lend a helping hand. Maybe instead of judgmental tendencies, we could learn to look deeper. Maybe instead of inconsideration, we could learn acceptance.

Write to Meira at mabienstock@bsu.edu

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8 comments

BP Sufferer
Sun Mar 28 2010 23:55
I have bi-polar disorder and it sucks, but I do think it can be managed if it's not too severe. Luckily for me the highs aren't too high, but the lows are quite low. I take Lamictal, 200mg a day, 300 some days if I'm really stressed out. If you have it, you have to take really good care of yourself - no drugs/alcohol, sleep well, eat well, and exercise. It's something that you will have to deal with your whole life, but if you are willing to take good care of yourself, you can successfully handle it.
Michael - Phoenix
Wed Mar 24 2010 18:44
Meira,

Thanks for taking a step in the right direction: talking about the disease called BiPolar Disorder. The article was thoughtful. I'm surprised at some of the statements from the other people posting here. There are some who make the assumption you only used one source instead of realizing that a writer can draw from many places without having to cite every single one (as long as it's not plagiarized). Also, I'm sure you're limited to the amount of space for your article and had to make decisions about getting your points across in a limited amount of space. Could you have provided more information? Yes. Could this be an on-going series? Yes.

To those who post who do not have the disorder, think first. I wouldn't wish this disease on anyone. I, fortunately, am one of the few who are fairly stable with my medication. However, to just take my medication or go to therapy is unrealistic. I also must have a supportive group of family, friends, co-workers, spiritual advisers, etc. to understand the disease and respect me as a person suffering from a disease.

It's a little difficult to compare this with diabetes or heart disease because the illness, even though treated with daily medication, because there are other factors that cause the medication to lose its' efficacy. For example, there are environmental stressors that can cause an imbalance and exacerbate the illness. I recently experienced several major life stressors that caused me to seek additional treatment for the disease to attempt to regain stability.

To the 'anonymous' poster, it's unfortunate that you and your family suffered abuse by a sick person. Hopefully, you understand that you, your siblings, and your offspring are at risk of the disease, too.

Bottom line: this is not an easy disease to treat. Also, society would provide a greater benefit to me and others who live with this disease by reducing the number of tv shows, movies, talk shows, etc. that sensationalize the illness. All it does it cause people to choose to not seek treatment so they are associated with the 'extremes' of the illness.

Lucy Jacobs
Wed Mar 24 2010 18:29
Concerned student- you are an ignorant moron that cant appreciate good writing. CLearly you aren't a good writer because YOU DONt have your own website or publications and yet you decide to criticize a beginning journalist major? hahh find a better way to deal with your ignorance.
Sarah Fort
Wed Mar 24 2010 18:15
Wow. These responses to your article make me sick. Bi-polar disorder is just like every other disorder out there. How in the world would you feel if you had to deal with your emotions running all over the place? Do you think people enjoy the "ride" they take? Would you like to take pills every day because your emotions are unstable? There seems to be a sense of ignorance running around. Unless you've experienced the disorder yourself or know someone who does, do not judge too quickly; because you are the misinformed one.
Man I Ac
Wed Mar 24 2010 15:51
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Mr. Obvious
Wed Mar 24 2010 00:40
Ultimately... take your meds! Just like anything else if these people take their medication and do their therapy they become less of a burden to everyone else. Not rocket science here
Anonymous
Wed Mar 24 2010 00:18
You're right, I should "feel bad" and "have understanding" for my bi-polar father. Oh wait, on second thought all the years verbal and physical abuse he subjected his three kids and wife to will never be forgivable. Blame the illness all you want, at the end of the day we DO have control of how we act and treat people.
Concerned Student
Tue Mar 23 2010 17:40
I can't help thinking that this was written without the consultation of any reliable sources. This article's title indicates that respect is key; while reading, I am overwhelmed by poor descriptions of bipolar disorder, generalizations about people's experiences with the disorder, and negative views of counseling. If the goal in writing this piece was truly to garner respect for students with bipolar disorder, it would have been appropriate to 1) have a clear idea of the course and possible treatments of bipolar disorder, 2) consult experts rather than taking all information from one individual's personal website, and 3) address factors like stigma, stereotype, and public opinion instead of listing undesireable symptom after undesireable symptom.






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